what up people i just thought i would give a quick little entry being that i was up with von while he got dressed and all for school. i was having a conversation with an old chat buddy of mine last night and we were talking about relationships and what is important in relationships when it comes to comminication, sex, understanding, and the whole nine. i was trying to explain to her that sometimes one thing can just ruin the whole relationship especially when one person don't see a problem.here are a few examples of what i am talking about. 1st example: what do you do when you are in a relationship with a person that isn't trying to better themselves or either grow as a person. what do you do when you have explain to this person that you want more out of life and they are just content with the way things are. do you stay in the relationship and settle or do you stay there for months, until months turn into years and then you are stuck trying to figure out why you stayed. no matter how good the conversation is, no matter how well you to enjoy each others company, no matter how good is the sex is. what do you do when you want a benz and they are happy with that datsun? example 2: what if you are in a relationship with a person that is there for you though think and thin, good and bad, good times and bad, but you all don't comminicate well. it is like you never have much to say to each other any more and although you love the person you know you aren't in love with them anymore, but they don't really see a problem and they say that they are still in love with you, what do you do? how long do you stay there? how can you correct a problem in your relationship when one person in the relationship don't see a problem? example 3: what if you are in a relationship with a person and the don't want to have sex, or when they have sex it seem as if it forced or only because they feel like they have to do it. it isn't one of those things that they think need to happen in order for a relationship to work. just like if you have money problems it can cause agruements in your relationship, sex problems and comminication problems can have that affect to. i guess my question is after all the trying, after all the talking about problems, what do you do when you are in a relationship with a person that don't see the same problem or when you are in a relationship with a person that don't want to acknowlege a problem in the relationship because they know it is going to have to take more work on their behalf. i am just curious because sometime it is easy to give advice when you are just hearing a story or a situation instead of being in the situation. sometimes the right thing to do isn't the thing that is going to keep you happy. anyway if someone can or want to just give me your opinion.
anyway to the good news of today, savon got a game today. i am always looking forward to that. i am getting amped up already and i have another 12 hours to go before he even start. i got the camera charging up, getting ready to go get the hair braided, thinking about what i can wear, it is like a big deal to me but to anyone that have kids they know what i am talking about. today is going to be that day where after i have gotten everything done and hopefully it will be early when they get done i am going to relax and nap all day if i don't have to actually do a lot of anything for other people, i am thinking about turning the cell off today so i won't get that "shawn can you help me" phone call. it is cool to help out family and friends but sometimes you need to just relax and give you body a break. it is either give you body a break or it is going to break down on you and that is the only body that you will have so take care of it. i am going to start working out and running and get on my grind and try to lose weight and get into shape. i use to run back when i was dating this midget of a girl and i have to say she wasn't the only reason why i started watching what i ate and running, but she was 85% of it. but now i have to be my own motivation. i got to lose this belly but keep this chest (my female customers like my chest) but yeah i am going to have to get on my grind and make that happen... well i guess i have given you enough to read for those that actually read this, but before i get to my shout out i want send out a special shout out to my friend tonya that had a lost in her family a few days ago. no matter how old or young a person is, the lost of a love one is just that, and it isn't easy so i hope her and her family get though. thanks for coming thru.. holla back ...100% skillz...
shout outs
1st shout out goes to all the ugly people, we rule the world people, us ugly people are making a come up. big shout out goes to my chat buddy mizzraye, thanks for the advice raye, big shout out goes to Toya for coming thru tagging the page, check out her pages, big shout out to my crew and fam, big shout out to all you i didn't give a shout out to and last but not least big shout out to my kids...